Honest Takes

Arguments and essays on the bigger forces shaping how we date.

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May 11, 2026Honest Takes
The 8 Wounds That Run Your Dating Life
You can't find the pattern in your dating history because the pattern isn't in your dating history. It's eight older wounds, inherited early, running underneath everything. Here's the map most 'attachment style' content only gestures at.
Nathan Doyle6 min read
May 6, 2026Honest Takes
The Male Loneliness Crisis: What's Going On With Him
He has six hundred contacts and one person to call. What we mis-name 'male loneliness' is older and more structural than dating — and it's deforming every connection he makes, for both of you.
Nathan Doyle7 min read

The 8 Wounds That Run Your Dating Life